Not a Queen a Khaleesi shirt

So the word King or Queen is meaningless unless you have power in the form of armies. How many people in Westeros wanted Balon Greyjoy? Many did not want Stannis Baratheon. Joffrey wasn’t exactly loved by the people until Margaery did some decent public relations. Robb Stark never wanted Westeros. If Renly had won, he would have left the North alone as he told Catelyn.